This is Jayar of TYT, I happened to read your post this morning and liked a lot of what you had to say. I love when topics get brought up that we're too afraid to talk about just b/c of how it MAY come off. I wish I were in today so I could bring it up on the show.
Anyway, I think you're right in pointing out the ignorance that is said about White folks. I would hope that people teach their kids about people, that we are all simply humans rather than teach them HOW to feel towards others...allow them to gain their own experiences and if those become skewed due to some bad ones, that's when the adjusting should occur. The same kinds of teachings probably happened to the Black kids you had to fight with everyday. Their parents had experienced and seen such heinous things themselves that a point of "this shit ain't gonna happen anymore" had to come up. In pushing back, they ended up shoving too hard in the other direction. This is why racism sucks; it only produces more of it.
By the way...I love when comedians make fun of any race. If a White person makes fun of Black folks and its funny, why wouldn't I laugh? I've seen some Black comedians do White folks jokes and they just weren't funny, b/c they just weren't funny! Where I draw the line is when it perpetuates and convinces people that these things are always true. The people that ingest that need the change of heart, not the comedians.