Maybe I'm misinterpreting what Cenk was saying, but I believe his argument wasn't that women know that they are lied to all the time and enjoy it, but that they like to hear what they want to hear.

If you are on a date, you are going to shower her with complements. Some are going to be lies, some aren't. Some are going to be bigger and smaller than others. But that's how our society works. He's not saying that women PREFER to be lied to. I think that is how you are taking it and why it is bothering you so much.