Both sexes have a very powerful ability to go into denial of reality.

Women want to believe that a man is nuturing and interested in you as a person because that is the way WOMEN are.  They want to believe that men think the same way.  So women are depressed to find out it was a lie and it was all about the body.

Men want to believe it when the woman acts all interested and impressed in with their triumphs because men think more competitively.  They want to believe that women think the way they do.  They are horrified if they found out the women weren't THAT impressed and faked the orgasm too.

It really is God's ugly trick to make women and men attracted to each other and try to live long term together.  I'm not gay but it's always seemed to me women would be a lot better off with women and men with men.  There would be no need for lying or pretending they felt the same way.

A wire in the fire room

by blueheartinaredstate on 01/24/2009 12:10:39 PM EST