I am a male and this is precisely the opposite of what I want.  What I want is a committed relationship with a woman who entrances me physically, mentally and emotionally and makes me happy.

I'm 29 years old and reasonably attractive, make great money and have a pretty great future, and yet this goal seems utterly impossible for me (given the empirical evidence of my own interminable series of romantic failures) despite your claim that a committed relationship is precisely what women want.

Maybe your ironclad ruleset isn't so ironclad.