Interesting take on "the wife," but I'll take two steps away from that one.
"The New York Times Magazine." I wasted a fair amount of time looking for the article there. Ana's reference to "the New York Times" article is still on the TYT home page. (I wasted time looking for it in the Times after I got the email from her yesterday as well.) Ana is a sweetheart, but that is exactly the kind of thing she needs to get right for TYT's credibility.
And, I like to choose when and where I waste my time.