The reality is that gays are not comfortable talking openly about "graphic homo sex" in general because our culture (especially males) is grossly homophobic. I think this is wrong. I can't see this as any different from people not being ok with interracial couples walking holding hands. The only way to change this is to let gay culture out of the closet. The stereotype that gay men are constantly hitting on straight males is offensive, in my opinion. It smacks of insecurity and honestly, I find it pathetic. As a female I have learned to accept that men I have no interest in are viewing me as a sex object. Why do men have so much trouble when this is reversed. If you are straight and comfortable with your sexuality, you should have no problem with another man being attracted to you. It could actually be seen as an unwelcome compliment. Females living with catcalls have gotten used to this. Men need to suck it up and face reality and stop being such infants about their sexuality. It should not be threatening.

by LadyFriend on 06/09/2009 11:24:18 AM EST

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