I'm not arguing that we need to give EVERY sexual preference a name, but I think some the locus of heterosexual and homosexual needs to be expanded.  If heterosexuals are pretty much split down the middle on if it's okay to watch twins have sex, then it's not an individual.  Now, I'm not saying that a person who has a foot fetish is a completely different sexual class than a "heterosexual", and if anything, "hyper-hetero" would be a class that includes people like those who watch lesbian acts, those who watch orgies, those who watch women in cars pressing the gas pedal(this is a true fetish I swear to god), those who like heterosexual domination.  I think the "fetish", is more of the sexual act preferred, where the "sexual orientation" talks more about what kind of partner is desired.  One can like "sadomasichism" and be straight or gay, so to call someone a "sadomasichist" really doesn't talk about their sexual orientation.  I definitely agree that sexuality is on a spectrum, but right now in America, that spectrum only really has three publicly recognized options:straight, gay, bi.  I think as well, the people in the world who are a-sexual, shouldn't get the same classification as a hyper-sexual, or hypo-sexual.  And again, I use these terms only as an example of how the divisions could theoretically be applied.  I think at this point, human sexuality is getting MORE complex, not less complex, so the subdivisions would become more complex as well.

Chris

by chrisandyasemin on 07/19/2009 11:54:13 AM EST

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That is an interesting idea.  I've been trying to develop a mental model for sexuality that incorporates not only the homosexual/heterosexual dimension, but also one or more dimensions for fetishes, too.  My problem has been that there are so many different and seemingly unrelated kinds of fetishes that it's hard to relate them all to one dimension.

How, for instance, does general voyeurism relate to the myriad foot fetishes people can have -- of which the gas pedal foot fetish you mentioned is not the weirdest. Does the specific imagery involved with a fetish matter?  Or are all fetishes basically the same with the only significant characteristic of a fetish being the intensity of a person's desire to indulge it?  For instance, is it meaningful to distinguish between someone who has a leather getish and someone who prefers latex, or even someone whose sexual experience is enhanced by certain kinds of music?  Or is it more meaningful to relate the strength of people's desires for their fetishes?

If the particular interest of a fetish is not important, then a simple "hyper-sexual/hypo-sexual" dimension might suffice.

by EveningStarNM on 07/19/2009 12:37:44 PM EST

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it's like a phylogenetic tree of sex.  Hetero and Homo at the top, then subdivide between asexualhetero- hypo hetero- hetero- hyperhetero-hyperbiheteroma jora- biheteromajora-hypo biheteromajora- asexual biheteromajora-asexual bihomomajora- hypobihomomajora-bihomomajo ra-hyperbihomomajora- asexual homo-hypohomo- homo- hyperhomo

Holy shit...this is why dialogue is so great!

Chris

by chrisandyasemin on 07/19/2009 12:55:54 PM EST

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Here's my rough idea:

A rough 2D representation of sexuality
A rough 2D representation of sexuality

But it could be related more accurately to a 2-dimensional representation of a 3-dimensional color spectrum, relating colors to luminance and chromaticity:

The 1976 CIE Chromaticity Diagram, courtesy of Photo Research, Inc.
The 1976 CIE Chromaticity Diagram

If you imagine that your "phylogenetic tree of sex" replaces the divisions with the color names shown on the field, then you can see what I'm talking about.  The discrete parts of the phyla can be related in a generalizing way to the spectrum.

by EveningStarNM on 07/19/2009 05:35:47 PM EST

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tabali tigi tree" weed kills motivation "?

Chris

by chrisandyasemin on 07/19/2009 01:50:51 PM EST

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Thai stick, maybe.  Hashish, certainly.  But weed?  I want to see it.  Those leaves have got to be dripping.

by EveningStarNM on 07/19/2009 04:05:34 PM EST

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