I'm a Black man, and I feel sorry for you.  Are a lot of Black people racist? Sure.  There are racists in every ethnic group.  Unfortunately, it is a pandemic trait at the level of human development where our species currently stands.  Is there often an unfair standard applied to Whites as opposed to Blacks in terms of what is acceptable to say at times? Yes.  Do efforts to overcome racial inequities occasionally overreach and unfairly impact Whites? Yes.  Are Whites sometimes accused of racism when such a charge is not justified? Yes.

But you White guys feeling sorry for yourselves, I feel sorry for you.  I feel sorry for you, because you are so depressed, your self-esteem is so low, your own personal sense of self-worth so lacking, that you can't see the fact that YOU RUN THE FREAKING WORLD!  The overwhelming majority of the people on this planet with any significant wealth or power are white males.  But yet, some of you guys, who enjoy so much privilege as a group, can only bitch and moan and remain obsessed with the few rare instances where privilege benefited someone NOT white.  Success is never guaranteed in life for anyone, but if you are an American white male, you have, on average, more chances than anyone else in the WORLD to get it right, more opportunities to succeed than anyone.  You can't see all the thousands of doors that being White opens for you in life--instead you're fixated watching for any door that opens for a minority so you can complain about why you can't go through THAT door.  Every time a Black person has any success or privilege, it burns you up.  But you're blind to the MILLIONS of white males that enjoy success and privilege every day in America and around the world.  You need to open your eyes and broaden your scope.

You're obsessed with OJ and Michael Jackson because you believe they got away with crimes, but yet you seem not to care at all about the fact that thousands of Black men around the country are wrongly imprisoned for crimes they DIDN'T commit.  You're obsessed with OJ for 15 years now, and steam comes out of your ears every time his name is mentioned, but you NEVER mention Robert Blake, or any of the dozens of rich White guys that have gotten away with murdering their spouses over the history of this country.  OJ is infamous to you you, but I'll give you $10 if you can name the white guys who murdered Emmitt Till and got away with it without looking it up.  How many lynchings were successfully prosecuted in American history? Not many.

And please stop telling me about America's racist PAST.  America has a racist PRESENT.  We've made a ton of progress, everyone who is reasonable recognizes that, but minorities in America are still impacted by racism and prejudice every day.  It's far better than it was, but if you think it no longer exists, you need to go to the Black neighborhood in your town and sit down and talk to some people about their life experiences.  These days, the disadvantages may arise more often from systemic things rather than deliberate hateful things, but they are still present.

So I'm not going to call you racist.  I'm going to call you myopic.  You need to take a broader look at the world instead of just focusing on a small group of things that you feel are unfair, or on the small group of situations where possibly, Blacks are privileged more than Whites.  Look at the big picture.  Which would you rather have? The right to tell dumb jokes like Jamie Foxx or 43 of the 44 presidents?  Which would you rather have? One weird screwed up entertainer who maybe molested children but yet is still worshipped after dying at 50, or 490 out of the Fortune 500 CEOs? Stop feeling sorry for yourself.  As an American White male, you are the most privileged creature on the planet.  I know, that doesn't mean your life is easy. That doesn't mean you have it made.  But the problems and frustrations you have are multiplied for everyone outside your group.

And as a final note, it cracks me up that right-wing types (and honestly a lot of left-wing people too) who are so "rah rah America" reject the basic foundation of the American legal system, innocent until proven guilty, any time someone who they have concluded was guilty based on evidence gathered from our sensationalist news media.  Do I think OJ was guilty? Yes.  Do I think Michael Jackson was guilty? Maybe.  But its just funny to me how so many people in America now basically have a presumption of GUILT when someone is accused of a crime, and don't respect the legal process unless it yields the same conclusion that they reached from the evidence they gathered from their diligent investigations of watching television.  So when OJ gets off, when Michael Jackson gets off, there is outrage.  But when you want to talk to these same outraged people about people who are wrongly incarcerated, their attitude suddenly changes to "Oh no, there is no significant number of innocent people in prison.  The justice system always works".

 

 

by mdavidboyd on 07/02/2009 12:40:39 PM EST

"I'm a Black man, and I feel sorry for you.  Are a lot of Black people racist? Sure.  There are racists in every ethnic group.  Unfortunately, it is a pandemic trait at the level of human development where our species currently stands.  Is there often an unfair standard applied to Whites as opposed to Blacks in terms of what is acceptable to say at times? Yes.  Do efforts to overcome racial inequities occasionally overreach and unfairly impact Whites? Yes.  Are Whites sometimes accused of racism when such a charge is not justified? Yes."

I love what you say there because that's what I believe. Everyone is racist, its human nature to stereotype and to group people together, and to form opinions on groups for better or for worse. But its through logic that we can guide that natural tendency for something good or at the very least not destructive. The problem I have with racism in today's world is that minorities don't see the hypocrisy in their actions. That whites who say something maliciously racist is rightfully shunned, but when a similar act is done from a minority towards a white person, its the white person who shouldn't feel sorry for himself? The double standard is real and should not be underestimated. Racism is racism.

I'm a mutt, but half of me is white and when I was a kid had blond hair (looked uber white). Ive never had a white friend though cause there weren't any around where I live so I naturally made friends with who was around. But I think I was able to gain a genuinely honest perspective to how minorites react to a "white boy". Long story short, when I read a book like black like me, or watch a movies about the civil rights era where life was hard and whites were malicious, I can identify with it. No, I never feared getting strung up or went through anything as extream as African Americans did back then, but I can guarantee that Ive experienced more racism on a consistent basis from various minorities that all my friends ever have, black , hispanic, Flip, or whatever combined.

So this idea that reverse racism issue isn't real or shouldn't be honestly talked about is IMO weak sauce. Its not a matter of whites feeling sorry for anyone, its about addressing the hypocrisy of how we react to racism today which is usually in a racist way. I have a dream of a better world than that.

by Smokin on 07/02/2009 02:11:20 PM EST

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You said...

"The problem I have with racism in today's world is that minorities don't see the hypocrisy in their actions."

That's your problem with racism today?

Not the kids being thrown out of the pool...not the american system of codified slavery (i.e.the penal system), not the hundreds of comments I alone hear everyday on the factory floor from whites, such as "n" word and so forth...oh no...for you, that is all in the past? or not so concerning?

Your biggest issue with racism is the minorities inability to see their own hypocrisy?

Oy vey...

If I didn't know any better, and I don't, you are beginning to sound like one of those whites I am racialist against. You strike me as a white who under their breath, and in 'certain' company, will 'let er rip' when it comes to your own racialist views...

You have the backdoor, back way in, yes...underground...way of being a racialist...seriously dude...I just have that feeling...

Let the chips fall...

by opiman000 on 07/13/2009 01:48:36 PM EST

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if you are black...or a person of colour...please, please explain to me how you can have this attitude...

by opiman000 on 07/13/2009 01:50:14 PM EST

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When someone loses power as has happened to whites as they've had to yield to the rights of other races, they sometimes want to feel sorry for themselves and see themselves as victims.  Therefore it's helpful to them to focus on the flaws of their made-up "oppressors" rather than on the real issues and their own flaws.

Abused children are less important to some than their own loss of prestige.  Smokin' was definitely focusing on a side issue.

Still, racism is not merely a whites-only problem.

by EveningStarNM on 07/13/2009 04:47:18 PM EST

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