I'm sorry about your accident and your "friend" being such a butt head. It sounds like you're doing everything you can to help yourself. I'm sure that you have paid taxes for many years. That's part of why we pay taxes, so that when we need a hand up the money is there for us. I'm sure you're not living high on the hog. And what's with the racist comment that he threw in? Hope all goes well with you in your future.