Memo to the Borg Collective, a.k.a. my fellow "Obamabots": The dream of a mandate is gone.

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I had a long conversation with a die-hard Hillary supporter last night (my mother) and came to some interesting conclusions. I wonder if any of you have had similar experiences and what your thoughts are. The bottom line is that I think Obama supporters need to recognize that, even though our candidate won, we find ourselves in an analagous situation to the election in 2004. It was close and there are some very dissappointed people on the losing side. Since most of us, Obama supporters and Hillary supporters alike, were together on the same side in that race, I hope that my fellow 'bamans can recognize the profound sense of loss and unfairness, which is inevitable in a close contest, that is driving anger among our Hillary supporting friends.

Votes: Hillary received a "majority of the votes" in all primaries and caucuses. For some it doesn't matter whether this is a valid statement, only that it is arguable, and it should count for something. I somewhat agree with this point, that the number of votes cast for Clinton matters. While it's true that Obama didn't win by a nose, he won by a neck, but he gained that ground very early, and didn't pull away significantly after Wisconsin, which was probably the defining moment of the campaign. Saying that he has an insurmountable lead, though technically true at this point, is like rubbing salt in a deep wound.

Dirty Campaigning. For instance, it is believed by this Hillary-voter that the Obama campaign has engaged in smear tactics against Hillary supporters, calling them "uneducated", "poor", "working class". If Obama is not responsible, according to her, then the talking heads on TV are. Hold your fire people, I know what you're thinking. This is just one example. According to my die-hard hillary supporter, Obama ran a vicious and ruthless campaign. Hillary is the victim of tactics even Rove might be jealous of, and biased media coverage to ice the deal. Obama "started it".

Policy. Domestic: Obama doesn't care about health care. Yep, you heard me right. Only Hillary has what it takes to enact National Health Care. Foreign: She accepts Hillary's explanation for the infamous Iraq vote, and honestly feels that Hillary was the victim of dishonest politicking by the republicans. If you Obama supporters want to hold it against Hillary, she can respect that but thinks you haven't given Hillary a fair hearing on the subject. When I bring up Kyl-Lieberman, we always end up talking about superdelegates somehow. Never got a straight answer on that.

Not sold on Obama. This is the most important of my take-aways. Hillary is partly to blame, for saying that Obama isn't ready, and for saying publicly that he suffers in comparison to the republican nominee. But, says this supporter, she "hasn't said that lately", therefore she is forgiven. There's this thing, its called youtube (?)... well nevermind. In anycase, Obama is perceived as lacking the gravitas and the experience to run the white house. According to her, Obama gives fluffy answers in interviews. She'll vote for Obama, but only because McCain is pro-Life.

Does any of this sound reasonable? I don't sound reasonable to her either. Perceptions of each of the other's candidates have been heavily shaped by 5 months of intensely negative propaganda from both sides, whether officially affiliated with the campaigns or not. I will admit that I have been heavily influenced by reading Andrew Sullivan, a conservative Obama booster who sees Clinton as completely unprincipled. Other prominent liberals (Frank Rich for example) have pushed this view. It won't be hard to find recent comments of mine on this forum that echo that very sentiment. It will be the biggest test of Obama's leadership to overcome real bitterness and division. This does not mean merely appearing magnanimous in victory (as Tom Daschle was attempting to do on MTP this week). We can't afford to dismiss the efforts of the Clinton campaign, because like it or not, Clinton backers are key to a victory in the fall. Some have called them sore losers. The only thing worse than a sore loser is a sore winner.

I did get something different out of this conversation than from previous ones. The dismissive references to "messiah-worship" are gone. She acknowledges that there are substantive differences in governing philosophy reflected in the campaigns, and a vision for the party that motivates my choice of Obama. Although she clearly prefers Hillary, she recognizes Obama's leadership potential (underscore "potential"). She believes that Hillary will surprise everybody and campaign hard for Obama in the fall. But Obama has a lot of work to do to convince people like her that he is not a snake-oil salesman.

I want to emphasize that I'm not saying kumbayah. I'm just saying that we all have known that this moment was going to come one day, that it was going to be close, and that someone had to eventually lose. Obama clearly did not get the mandate to change the party that many of us were seeking, although he did give voice to the grassroots, which was ignored for many years. So the DLC is not crushed, and if you didn't notice, neither is Hillary. She plans to continue her campaign as of now. Or, she's winding down. Who knows what to believe?

In the end, you have to admire her for sticking with it all the way to now, although you may abhor the tactics. I would hope that Obama would do the same for me. Since his name isn't Clinton he would have been crushed long ago if he were in her place, but let's get past that. Like it or not, in the real world she is in a strong position to damage or help the democratic ticket in the fall. Therefore, once she concedes, she will be negotiating from a position of strength. Get used to the idea that there will likely be some major concessions in the aftermath of the primary.

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all of the screwups that were committed by the HRC campaign? I see no mention of that here. No mention of the poor February campaign strategy. No mention of the failure to compete in the caucus states (this is the MAIN reason why she is going home, nothing else). Dirty campaigning? Kitchen sink anyone? The Bosnia lying. The high negatives and mistrust numbers. Let's not forget that there are a LOT of people on the right who HATE the Clintons and some of them will vote for Obama if he is the nominee, because they hate McCain too. I'm getting the feeling here that these HRC supporters can only see the bad about Obama and not the good. The guy has run a masterful campaign, like it or not. They act like there is something wrong with US because we support him. I started out an HRC supporter, but her do anything to win, say anything to win campaign convinced me that we do need a new kind of politics in this country and this partisan bickering has got to stop. The only way to do that is to blow the doors off the Repubs in November and make them a minority party for years to come. I think Barack Obama has the best chance of doing that. If these older women who are so mad at Obama for winning the nomination when it was "their turn" want to throw the race and let the Supreme Court become the place where women's rights will go to die, shame on them. That may make them feel better, but they'll be selling their daughters and granddaughters down the river for generations to come. You can kiss Roe v. Wade goodbye. Not to mention the minority and personal rights that will be trampled on if there is even 1 more right wing justice put on the court. There are at least 2 justices that are going to need to be replaced in the next 12 months. Have you guys seen Bator-Ginsburg and Stevens lately? Both of them have one foot in the grave holding on for a Democratic president. This alone is enough to support Obama or any democrat over McCain. I know that HRC supporters are pissed and have a right to be. But, they are going to need to get over it. There is too much at stake.

by mijoh on 06/02/2008 07:23:49 PM EST


was not to list Obama's deficiencies. In fact I disagree vehemently with the characterizations I presented. The problem is that Obama has the rarified task of attracting an entire segment of the electorate for which the seeds of mistrust have been planted for 5 long months, to the tune of 100's of millions of dollars. The republicans in their wildest dreams did not imagine Hillary would do so much damage to the democratic nominee. But here we are, and that has to be reversed somehow. In the end do you want to win a petty argument, or beat john mcCain? Remember, these people agree with you on most things outside the primary bubble. What good is it to needlessly alienate them? I'm not saying you have to agree with them, or kiss their ass the way bobo would have you do. Part of Hillary's strength is that she has a solid and loyal following built up over many years. That movement has been defeated (for now) and requires mollification. Why? Because we are not the republican party (speaking of robots). No democrat will take well to being told they have to get in line for the sake of some "party unity". The ultimate effect would be to suppress turnout. I don't if it kills Obama's chances, but it doesn't help.

by hazmat on 06/02/2008 11:44:02 PM EST

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What I don't get is what is so wrong with Obama, other than the fact the he beat HRC? We hear older women ranting and raving about how Hillary got jobbed and it is just not true. They are just making excuses for HRC's shortcomings in running her campaign. People don't want to admit it, but the Obama run for the presidency is a more than just a campaign, it is a movement. A movement that HRC was woefully prepared for and did not see coming until it was too late. It might not seem so right now, but trust me, McCain will not stand a chance in November, especially if HRC is the VP choice (I am against that idea, but that is a story for another thread). The guy has simply jumped into the Repub bus that is being driven over the cliff by Bush. The seeds are there for a complete landslide and I do not see how the Repubs can avoid it.

by mijoh on 06/03/2008 01:42:57 PM EST

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many Hillary supporters feel that they, too, are part of a movement. Think about that for a moment. Theirs has been around for longer than this one. Ours is born of 9-11. That's not accurate, but let's say the progressive grass roots began to find its focus then.

You see Clinton as one of Lieberman's political siblings (I don't want to speak for you, but if I'm wrong, then I'm just speaking for myself). But she is much more than that. I don't purport to understand the Hillary phenomenon, but, let's assume for a moment that the die-hards are boomer women, who have been around for the culture wars. They were raised by their mothers and grandmothers who remembered the womens suffrage movement. Perhaps they see themselves as the torchbearers (legitimately in my view, even the detestable Geraldine Ferraro). Plus, add to that all those who agree with them. And still more, the masses of people who admire their convictions and their goals. Clinton supporters are not drawn in by rhetoric. Clinton embodies for some people the first real chance to get their candidate past the status quo, just as Obama promises the same for you and me. They almost succeeded. That movement suffered a major setback this week in the undeclared end of the Clinton campaign. It is crucial that you understand that she is not like any other candidate Obama might have faced.

This has truly been an historic primary, when you begin to grasp these truths. Never in our lifetime have two such momentous figures faced off for such a minor prize (the nomination), the reward for which was to face off in the bonus round to a has-been like John McCain. This is true even if you were to ignore their symbolism as firsts (black or female).

This is a sort of ephiphany I reached recently. You see, I never really cared about Clinton's candidacy before. I'm glad that Obama won. I have problems with some of Hillary's votes, and her leadership philosophy and style. But her supporters are willing to give her the benefit of the doubt because of her long history fighting for your causes. You had a choice, and you exercised it. Now is the time to end the rancor.

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as an aside, the issue of racism needs to be addressed. I don't think Clinton or most of her supporters are racist, despite evidence to the contrary. We can have a discussion about shades of gray on this issue if you like. I'm pretty well read, and believe me, I have a low threshold on the issue. There's no question that they used racism as a wedge. It will be to her everlasting shame, but I believe her actions to be a born out of cynicism about the process and a lack of faith in the intelligence of the voting public.

by hazmat on 06/04/2008 04:20:22 AM EST

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In the intlligence of the voting public? It worked twice for the Clintons in the 1990s. They thought they could use the same game plan in the following century.

by KenTX on 06/04/2008 09:35:46 AM EST

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for your thoughtful and insightful piece. I hope that the Obamabots with your help truly understand that there is a lot of healing to be done, and it simply cannot be "put up or shut up" from the Obama side - I appreciate your candor and fairness in this writing...

Obama (and Obama supporters) better do right by all Democrats, not just his "collective minions"...

Thanks again...

:)

by bobo1 on 06/02/2008 07:29:54 PM EST


Wow, Bobo Sixpack REALLY kisses up to the few people who agree with him.

by OneHitKill on 06/02/2008 10:11:25 PM EST

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We are "Obamacans", not "Obamabots". Originally "Obamacan" meant a Republican who backed Obama, but it has since February or so been applied generally to all Obama supporters. Besides, "Obamacan" makes us sound like a cool native-American tribe. Obamabots makes us sounds like robots, and we all know its Hillary who is the robot. heh.

 You can call us "Lincolnites" if you'd like, as we are the same coalition of progressive Whites and Blacks who backed Lincoln against the Confederates in the Civil War. Hence Obiwan appearing as Abe Lincoln in the extemely popular "Empire Strikes Barack" on YouTube.

 The Clinton supporters are of course "Clintonites". Though I think you can call them "Tories" as well, since they support Hillary out of loyalty to the Clinton Royal Family.

I like calling them "Tories", since its quite accurate.  

by Tarheel88 on 06/02/2008 09:58:23 PM EST


I hate Lincoln.  He is the only president who might have been worse than Bush.

by ProfRich on 06/02/2008 10:31:00 PM EST

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They're truly "Obamanations".

by KenTX on 06/02/2008 10:57:15 PM EST

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to describe how little I care what the Obamanation calls itself. I really disagree with the Tory moniker for Clinton supporters. I know too many personally. I really don't believe that their support is out of blind loyalty any more than yours for Obama is.

by hazmat on 06/02/2008 11:54:20 PM EST

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Hazmat really has shown us where the healing needs to begin, on both sides. There are passionate feelings on both sides of the fence here, and we should acknowledge them. But we also need to unify behind Obama or we will all have to live with 4 more years of dissapointment and Kentx smugness (who wants that). The republican hope now is to devide and conquer. We must find a way to unite, not as Obamawhateveruwannacallits victors over the Hillaryalmostshouldacouldas , but as Progressive American Patriots. We have to take our country back and find a new direction together, or most certainly we will fall apart and the Bush legacy will follow us to our graves. We the People, remember! Not We Some of the People!

I was always proud to call myself an American until Bush and his policy's destroyed our standing in the world. I want to be proud again, and together we can at least start to heal.

by juebawl on 06/03/2008 11:06:47 AM EST


After this morning's crazy news, I'm a little annoyed with the Hillary campaign still.  They seem to be doing everythign in their power to assure a large block of disgruntled voters remain and that there will never be a real coming together of the two campaigns. 

Can't I just spend one day gloating and celebrating then we can do all the kum-ba-ya shit later? 

by schmoab on 06/03/2008 12:36:15 PM EST


Of course, idealistically, we should try to bring the Hillary supporters in, but those who are thinking logically (like your mother) realize they are better served voting for Obama.

When it comes to the crazies who are threatening to vote for McCain, what exactly are we supposed to do?  They are clearly not thinking rationally, so no logical argument will convince them.  Hillary has been telling them that McCain would be a better president for the better part of this campaign.  The only one who can convince them to vote Obama is Hillary Rodham Clinton, and it appears now that she is not going to do that.

I gave an earlier post the title "Hillary supporters are sore losers".  In retrospect that was unfair.  I have a tendency to exaggerate my point when choosing a title, and in this case it was a mistake.  It's just Some Hillary supporters are sore losers doesn't sound as interesting.  I should have gone with "Hillary protesters are sore losers" or "Harold Ickes is a pompous, democracy raping, hypocritical dickhead".

Again, I hate the conspiracy theory sounding "She's running for 2012", but if she is going out there tonight to not recognize that Barack Obama has won, what is her motive, if not that?  Do you honestly think that there is anything we can do to convince the "Harriet Christian's" of the world not to vote for McCain as long as Hillary refuses to tell them the truth?

by richardshort2001 on 06/03/2008 01:34:05 PM EST


that she plans to scuttle Obama's chances in the fall. It only seems that way based on recent campaign statements. Remember, we're talking about politicians here.

by hazmat on 06/04/2008 03:23:33 AM EST

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Mom is 100% dead on.

You have been influenced by a log cabin PUB? Have you read his latest column?

So after listening to a Pub, you then took schooling from the same "journalists" who trashed Gore? and help defeat Kerry?

So instead of trusting Mom's instints and judgement you prefer to listen to Pubs and media hacks bought and paid for by the MSM.

want another perspective? check out the daily howler or bartcop. You will find that your mom is not alone. The daily howler is particularly good at pointing out how the MSM has destroyed Dem candidates and who is directly responsible.

by LORD FOUL on 06/03/2008 04:50:26 PM EST


I want you to be the first to hear this.

Obama has to choose Hillary as VP.

I am now assuming this was her plan since Baby Super Tuesday.  Obama didn't want her, but she has created a rift that she can present herself as the only solution for.  Nicely done, Hillary.

Now bring me the head of John McCain!!!!! 

by ProfRich on 06/03/2008 08:56:24 PM EST

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that you were ill-served by this thread. Obviously I failed in my mission to encourage you to think outside the box.

by hazmat on 06/04/2008 03:25:35 AM EST

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I'm not sure what you have against him, but he is not a log-cabin republican, as I understand it. I think he would call himself gay, and conservative. He believes (apologies to A. Sullivan if I mischaracterize his views!) that although in terms of pure policy Obama is an orthodox liberal, his governing philosophy is closer to the conservatism that he admires than anything advocated by republican politicians at the national level. This philosophy includes fiscal discipline, prudent foreign policy, basic morality and the rule of law. He sees McCain as the best choice the republicans might have offered this year, but probably not good enough--no need to unpack that in this thread.

by hazmat on 06/04/2008 04:45:58 AM EST

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That right there discounts him as anyone you would take seriously.

by Chinese Democracy on 06/04/2008 06:02:13 AM EST

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I think he would call himself gay, and conservative.

Does he breathe fire, have wings and/or lay golden eggs? 

by OneHitKill on 06/04/2008 09:23:42 AM EST

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