TYT Poll: Should a High School Football Coach be Allowed to take His Team to Church?

During today's third hour, Cenk and Ana talked about a high school football coach who is in hot water for taking 20 members of his football team to church. The 16-17 year old students voluntarily went to the church, and half of them got baptized. School officials insist that the trip was not funded by the school and did not take place during school hours. Some parents are upset that the school did not ask for their permission before the boys went to the church.


Ana saw no harm in this because she felt the boys were old enough to make their own decisions. Cenk and Jayar thought it was wrong for the coach to take the boys to a church. What are you thoughts?

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TYT Poll: Should a High School Football Coach be Allowed to take His Team to Church?
Yes 16%
No 83%

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While I understand its popular to hate religion on the internet,this was done off school hours with a private bus,it was voluntary.There is nothing unconstitutional about it,so why shouldn't he be able to?If you say he can't because he is a school official,does that mean any school official is banned from having any religion?

by boxxybrown on 09/09/2009 12:50:40 AM EST

"any school official is banned from having any religion?"

Of course not, he just needs to be careful how he goes about presenting his religion from his position of secular authority. No different than an employer dating an employee. It can be done in the proper way/context but without restrictions it ends up being abuse.  

"No, you are a paid blogger assigned to counter anyone that posts something negative about the government or Obama." by Mcamelyne II on 05/17/2011

by Robrob on 09/09/2009 12:57:43 AM EST

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Hi this is ArranoGris from YouTube...you'll notice I posted a bunch of comments on the video for this in opposition to Ana's point. Yeah...I really need to stop doing that before the video is over. You guys always inevitably make new points or present new facts at the END of the fucking videos. You might have mentioned the thing about the bus being privately funded and it being done outside school at the START of the story. Sheesh. Anyway...

If this coach did his best to do this completely outside his capacity as a paid coach at a public school, then...as much as I don't like having to admit it, he should have been allowed to do it. If the bus truly was privately paid for, and it truly was made perfectly clear to everyone that this was voluntary, and the coach did NOT exercise his capacity as a public school, then I don't see how I have a Constitutional basis for saying he shouldn't do it.

by Sparrowhawk on 09/09/2009 10:00:51 AM EST

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he is not a random school official who took people to his church, some of whom just happened to be students at the school where he worked.

Were you to tell me that one of the cafeteria workers had a van and offered a ride to anyone who wanted to go to his church, then we have a wholly different situation.

The football coach took the kids who want to play on his football team to his church. While it may have been set out as being voluntary, it is de facto involuntary. The kids have to please that coach to play on the team. Coaches have tremendous influence over the kids who play sports under their supervision.

I played football in HS. I was the only Jewish person on the team. (My sister, the other Jew in the school, didn't want to try out.) A couple of the coaches were all into the Jesus and led "voluntary" team prayers and FCA meetings and such. I knew that I could not actually walk out without creating a big to-do. And as a 16 year old kid, I didn't want to be Ghandi about it and lead some protest movement. I wanted to play football. So I had no choice.

by braveomatic on 09/09/2009 02:44:00 PM EST

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Boxxy.  I have no problem with school officials having faith in a religion.  I have nothing against religion and I am, in fact, a christian.  I am curious if you've ever played football.  I've played football, basketball, soccer, and baseball.  I was also part of numerous other clubs while in school, and no where is there as much of a need to be "one of the guys" than in football.  There is a culture that goes with football that you HAVE to fit in.  You can't be weird or odd in any fashion.  While I played football, I got a "Jar of Clay" cd and tried to give it to a friend of mine for free.  I love my faith but don't have a desire to be preached to at every given second, music included.  So when I was giving it to a friend and teammate another teammate came from across the locker room and got in my face "YOU GOT SOMETHING AGAINST JESUS OUR LORD AND SAVIOR?!!!"  I simply explained that I don't want my music to be proslatizing me as so many people felt it necessary in Pensacola. (right in the bible belt.)  And it became a huge issue with my teammates.  That my supposed rejection of Jesus was an attack some how on their faith of Jesus.  Football is the ultimate team sport that at no point are you doing something on your own and you all have to feel you are together. 

So I can see many of the boys who were on that team possibly feeling they had some duty to go.  Plus, taking a child to church is a parent or guardian's duty not the football coach.  I understand your feelings that the coach was merely trying to save these children's soul, but what if the coach too the children to a mosque?  Would you be ok with that?  If not why do you have a problem with religion?  He was just trying to save their soul again.  A parent has the right to instill whatever morales they wish to in a child.  And if they are atheist or agnostic that is their right as parents to raise their children as atheists or as agnostics. 

When you are with your students you are always a teacher, no matter the location.  It is like a counselor or therapist or psychiatrist.  I could very easily lose my license if I saw one of my patients on the street and took them to my church.  It is not my job to instill my faith on a patient.  It is unethical.  And where ever I am, if I see one of my patients it is my duty to keep it both confidential and to keep it professional.  Also... these boys may be 16... and a 16 y/o is more of an adult than a 5 y/o but it still doesn't mean they aren't full of stupid and not ready to be adults.  They are still children and minors under the law.  How many times do we hear or remember from when we were 16, all the stupid decisions that 16 y/o's make?  They are still impressionable and we need to leave matters of faith to the parents and the family's spiritual guide. 

by Das Gimp on 09/11/2009 08:17:21 AM EST

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I don't know what kind of scheme you have in America, but around here it's considered highly dubious for a teacher to spend time with his students off hours, developing relationships with them, etc. It's a basic ethics violation; You're in a position of authority, power, and you've been given the trust of the parents, and you're just not allowed to spend undocumented time with your pupils or students, let alone encourage them to join your cult, union, society, or anything. If you're an employed teacher, it is your responsibility to keep a purely professional relationship with *every* student at your school, *especially* the ones you teach.

I agree this might not be a constitutional issue, and I certainly agree a 17-year-old deserves getting babtized if he's too dumb to say no, I agree that this is a moderately harmless case and that there's no need for lawsuits or legal action, but this teacher has violated the trust of the parents, developed a clearly unprofessional relationship with his charges, used a position of authority to encourage kids to join a cult, and any of these three things are clear ethics violation for a teacher. They could easily fire him for less, in my judgment, but even if not, it would still be a significant vio lation of teachers' ethics for anyone teaching a class whose students are not legally emancipated.

This issue is not just  about whether or not it's moral or legal. This is a question of whether it is ethical, and according to the average standards for a teacher, it clearly is not.

by Sorenzo on 09/09/2009 01:00:28 AM EST

I studied to become a teacher, by the way, in case anyone was wondering where I'm coming from. I've never taught professionally, but I do remember common school ethics, at least in Denmark.

By the way, there is a professional way to be a religious teacher. If a kid asks you what you believe, you can tell them. If you are allowed (by school and law) to wear religious symbols, you can. If you are teaching a course on religion, you even ought to tell the students your bias, just like you ought to tell them your bias if you're teaching them about politics. If an Evangelical Christian is going to teach about Islam, or a Conservative is going to teach about Communism (and vice versa), the personal bias of the teacher is a vital piece of information for the kids.

You just can't tell the kids, or insinuate to them, what they ought to believe about either politics or religion. Regardless of it's morality or legality, it's unethical as long as the children/young adults concerned go to your school.

by Sorenzo on 09/09/2009 01:08:04 AM EST

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"deserves"getting babtized?

"to join a cult"

How rational of you.

 

by boxxybrown on 09/09/2009 01:09:11 AM EST

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Ana said:
"These are 16-17 year old boys who know what they're doing"

As a previous 16-17 year old boy myself, I would have to say that I did not know what I was doing when I was that age.


I say it would have been ok if the coach had talked to each boy's parents.  They should really know better than not getting parental permission, school official or not.  This should at least get a conversation between the child and the parent about religion or non belief.

We are a way for the cosmos to know itself.

by aidbo on 09/09/2009 01:21:36 AM EST

If you google the original article, all of the parents were asked by the coach and gave permission, except one student. Some of the parents attended the service, too. The one student's mother is the only one mad about this. I think it was ok for all of the students whose parents gave verbal permission. I don't think he should have taken the one student that didn't have permission.
I belong to a evangelical church, and I wouldn't want my kids' coach taking him, even to our own church, without my permission.
I honestly don't know why that important fact was left out of this discussion. It seems that is what most people object to.

by momstock on 09/17/2009 01:21:50 PM EST

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If you google the original article, it states that except for one student, all of the parents gave verbal permission. Some of the parents attended the service. The mother of the one student who wasn't contacted is the only parent objecting. I think it was ok for the coach to take all of the kids who had permission. He shouldn't have allowed the one w/o permission to go. I belong to an evangelical church and I wouldn't want my kid's coach to take him, even to out own church w/o my permission. Even if you totally ignore the religious aspect of the case, if there had been an accident, the parents would have to be found and notified, b/c medical attn has to be approved in person or writing. A permission slip would have been wise.

by momstock on 09/17/2009 01:32:37 PM EST

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From the perspective of the players and as a high school student, I personally don't see why it's such a big deal, it wasn't done on school time, it was privately funded, and we are indeed able enough to make decisions without the consent of our parents (that doesn't mean we always make the right ones.)

That raises the point where you might say, "Could be rebellion," or some such but that brings up the question of whether or not they they were truely committed in the first place, making any decision out of spite and or rebellion just that, a  non-commital, non-weighted conclusion by the teenager.

On top of all this, it's not like this is the first time a sports team has been taken to a church and it only becomes unconstitutional when it's forced on them,  It's not like "you must be baptized or you can't play." I rule, "let em go!"

by shika12 on 09/09/2009 01:34:16 AM EST

While I agree w/ Ana that the boys are certainly old enough to make decisions for themselves, I believe that they are still immature enough that they would be affected by "everyone else is doing it" behavior. Peer pressure is powerful among teens--often their entire reputation is tied to school, especially w/ jocks.

Saying "no" might be akin to social suicide or they may believe the coach may favor the "blessed."

Wrong on all accounts.

by alfreeland on 09/09/2009 01:45:30 AM EST

     I must have missed something, or perhaps Ana may have left some facts out of her reporting. If not, than this is not even debatable. Ana's position on this issue would be laughable if this issue wasn't so serious. 
    This is ABSOLUTELY a case of religion in our education system, which in my view is an outrage. The idea that since this 'baptism' didn't happen at school gives this guy a pass is absurd! If a teacher takes her kids on a field trip, a ball game, a play, a camp or a baptism, that teacher is a representative of that school and is responsible for those kids. 
    Ana's other argument (equally absurd) that reaching the age of 16 somehow grants these kids the maturity to make all future descisions has no basis in science or fact. A couple of times Ana's done stories on teachers sleeping  ;with students of this age. Shouldn't 'Ana's Crazy Case Law of Maturity' apply to those cases?
    And finally the bottom line...actual  law that applies here that Ana may want to read: Parents have custody of 16 year-old kids! That means you don't get baptized by your football coach without a permission slip!!! Hello?!? Anybody there?!?

by morton316 on 09/09/2009 02:08:24 AM EST

" The idea that since this 'baptism' didn't happen at school gives this guy a pass is absurd!"

Coaches and teachers are not "on the job" for 24 hours a day like police officers,they are allowed to have personal lives,by that logic any employee of the state that goes to church is also religion in the school system

 

" Parents have custody of 16 year-old kids! That means you don't get baptized by your football coach without a permission slip!!!"

 1)Religion is not a controlled substance 2)You have freedom of religion in america,you dont need permission from your parents to convert to anything

by boxxybrown on 09/09/2009 03:12:59 AM EST

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"to convert to anything"

How much do you want to bet you'd change your mind if the coach was taking your kid to a Wiccan coven meeting or a Hari Krishna initiation rite?

"No, you are a paid blogger assigned to counter anyone that posts something negative about the government or Obama." by Mcamelyne II on 05/17/2011

by Robrob on 09/09/2009 03:55:45 AM EST

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"How much do you want to bet you'd change your mind if the coach was taking your kid to a Wiccan coven meeting or a Hari Krishna initiation rite?" I wouldn't bet anything because It wouldn't change the situation,but nice strawman though.

by boxxybrown on 09/09/2009 03:58:39 AM EST

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You may not agree with my point, which is fine but you may also want to look up the definition of "strawman".

"No, you are a paid blogger assigned to counter anyone that posts something negative about the government or Obama." by Mcamelyne II on 05/17/2011

by Robrob on 09/09/2009 04:05:09 AM EST

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That was a strawman,you assume that I am some hypocrite that only approves because it is christianity.

by boxxybrown on 09/09/2009 04:23:04 AM EST

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A stawman is where one person misrepresents the others position and then attacks the weaker "strawman" position.

Robroy presents more of a special pleading fallacy I think

by cowpacino on 09/09/2009 05:09:41 AM EST

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Well, yes but that still doesn't make it a "strawman" argument. Flipping the context from Christianity to non-Christianity to illustrate a point is not a strawman argument.

A strawman argument would be if I said something like, "coaches all over the country were converting our children, aren't you against that?"
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"No, you are a paid blogger assigned to counter anyone that posts something negative about the government or Obama." by Mcamelyne II on 05/17/2011

by Robrob on 09/09/2009 02:29:00 PM EST

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Ive just sent the 3rd of my 5 kids to college, and they had to have a permission slip as high school football players to go home with their parents rather than ride the school bus. They needed notes for picnics, notes to buy lunch at McDonalds on field trips, they seek permission for the simplest things. Why? because our minor children are in their custody at these times, and a permission slip is implied contract to not hold them responsible for a variety of things.

This coach had minors in his charge. It was incumbent upon him to seek permission before doing this, because he is responsible for them, if not as a school representative (which was implied), then as a private citizen he is taking responsibility for all those minors, and any and all liability that may ensue. 

"Life's rich demand creates supply in the hands of the power, the only vote that matters." --James Michael Stipe, from Begin the Begin.

by Hamsterdam on 09/12/2009 09:08:26 PM EST

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Come on, if they want to go then fine,but if they don't then don't force them.But i would not go anyway.

by sesshoumaru2st on 09/09/2009 03:19:07 AM EST

if it's done NOT during school hours and the players are not force to go, I don't see it as a problem. As a 17 year old kid, I'm able to think for my self if i would follow the couch to things like this. I am a little uncomfortable with this being done after school, but it's nothing to go crazy about.

by MrCen91 on 09/09/2009 03:43:26 AM EST

As far as the religious aspect of this debate, I agree with Ana, these boys are old enough to make their own decision as far as their religion is concerned.

That said, these boys are 16 and 17 and that, in the eyes of the government is still minors.

OK so the coach wanted to take a few of the boys out for some nice conversions, but from what Cenk was saying I gathered, the Principle or some other administrator consented to the whole thing. Where do we draw the line from one teacher proselytizing off school grounds and after hours, and a school sanctioned trip? If the coach wanted to take the boys to the county fair and an admin consented to it, would it be a school sanctioned event, permission slips and the whole 9? Why be so sneaky about it?

by cowpacino on 09/09/2009 04:53:46 AM EST

I don't get it at all. Religion (and by that I mean Christianity) gets a free pass every time. While the president is being chastised because he would indoctrinate the children when giving a speech, a direct figure of authority who is able to influence his pupils very strongly is allowed to just take the children and expose them to his cult and even making them join. No, I don't think peer pressure and perceived favorability by the coach played any role in the conversions...

Yes, I ask what would happen if it was a mosque or a wiccan coven or a buddhist monastery. Or something more secular, like a nudist organization? Or how about a -shock, awe- labour organization or a political party.

These children are old enough to choose their political affiliation just like they can choose their faith. See, how that works out.

Anyway, the coach's actions are super-fishy and he should be prohibited from teaching again.

by eborujion on 09/09/2009 05:21:55 AM EST

Really? Teenagers, authority figure, formal acceptance of a skygod. Overt pressure or not, can't have it. Coach needs reprimand, warning. (And another warning to watch out for angry parents with bats.)

by Landbeyond on 09/09/2009 05:55:37 AM EST

I love how the phrasing of the question is designed for us to say it's okay but 80% still disagree :)

by shenron64 on 09/09/2009 06:08:38 AM EST

Let's ask Hugh/Ken.

He played high school football.

I bet his ancestors patented  high school football.

Random 19'th century dude. 

So that would make him the leading authority on all things high school football.

by z1p101 on 09/09/2009 07:03:46 AM EST

Of course he should be allowed to take his team to church. If he was forcing them to go then it would be wrong but if the coach wanted to do something he felt was right, there is no need to go and punish him. Plus, if it was the students choice, then using Cenk's words "let him go!!!". I understand the coach should have asked the parents, but overall just let him go.

 -MrMustachMan

by MrMustachMan on 09/09/2009 07:36:04 AM EST

if only because

a. he asked this during school hours
b. he asked it in the capacity of a public school teacher

he was advertising a religious activity when he was being paid as a teacher

it would be different if he ran into the kids at a bar (oh right 17y olds can't drink in the US :) and asked them, but even then it's highly fishy because kids could feel presurred because they feel it might affect their grade or position in the team

and as Cenk said: what if it was a mosque or a satanic church

+ why the F would you want to go baptize a bunch of kids, the fact that he wanted to do this  should trigger an investigation into this guy

by callisto on 09/09/2009 08:29:15 AM EST

The problem is that the coach is in a power position. The students were also his players.  Though it may not have been explicitly stated, the players would be in the position think they may be choosing between not playing and getting baptized.  Do it after the season, only for Seniors.  This may be ironic, but I'm literally drinking Kool-Aid right now.

by dermondy on 09/09/2009 10:14:42 AM EST

Pubs go completely nuts over Obama giving a speech to school students

A coach takes minors and gets them baptized without their parents consent (no problem)?

A school. in Texas, bans Obamas' speech and the same school sponsers a trip to see GWB give a speech (no problem)?

We should now take advantage of this. All the so-called liberal teachers can now take their students to liberal functions with complete immunity.

by LORD FOUL on 09/09/2009 12:09:11 PM EST

because it sounds strange to me that the coach spontaneously takes a school bus to go to a church where some of his students spontaneously get baptised.

In my former German Lutheran church , people over 14 years generally aren't baptised spontaneously. People over 14 are generally required to prove that they know what they're believing before they are baptised. But so many things are different in America, I don't know, maybe the American churches accept new members to the congregation and perform the holy sacrament of baptism to anybody.

The next thing is that I can't believe that this teacher didn't plan this in advance. After training, he suddenly realized that there is a school bus and that he could take this school bus for a trip to... a church. And - surprise, surprise - it turns out that in this church, there is a a priest who is authorized to convert them to a new faith and to baptise them.

I would totally agree with Ana if this coach had met one of his students on the streets, spontaneously had a conversation with him and then, both the coach and the student decided to go to a church, and it happened that the student got baptised. That would be the private life of two people who are old enough to decide upon religious matters.

But in this case, as far as I can see, it looks like this coach was on a religious mission and that he was misusing his authority as a government employee to make his players and his wannabe players to go to that church and to earn their master's favour.

There should be further investigations about this teacher. To me, it seems that this coach is a religious lunatic on a mission, someone who's misusing the authority that the government has given him. To me, it seems that this coach doesn't do the job that he's paid for. To me, it seems that he's trying to evangelize young boys who are focused on becoming a football star instead of doing what the taxpayer is paying him for.

The government should take this coach to Guantanamo for further investigation.

by logischabbaubar on 09/09/2009 01:04:36 PM EST

In many (not all, maybe not even most) churches in America have a ‘call’ during their service. This ‘call’ is for visitors to the church to come forward and be ‘saved’. Generally the visitors are not baptized on spot, just prayed over as they ask for Jesus’ forgiveness.  Also, some churches will have special services in addition to the regular weekly services. These involve large scale baptisms of new members and visitors.

So, spontaneous baptisms are actually quite common.    

by goldenopal on 09/09/2009 10:25:52 PM EST

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Good point, logi. I grew up in a German Lutheran church, so I know what you mean. No adult was baptized into that faith community unless they were deemed ready for baptism by the pastor after thorough counseling and questioning. And teens who had been baptized as infants had to attend bi-weekly confirmation classes for two years to learn the Lutheran tenets of faith and the responsibilities of membership in the church before they were formally admitted to the church as adults.

But that's just not how it works in some of these rah-rah churches. Not always, but sometimes, baptism is more often like a cattle call -  and in the excitement of the moment and a heatrfelt playing of "Just As I Am," the suddenly converted walk toward the show stage to receive the Lord's grace from the preacher, and then all are assured of their place in heaven because they rescued another soul from the dangerous clutches of Satan, who abides everywhere outside of their club. Not to mention claiming a new contributor to the church's building fund. I am sincerely happy for those to whom this is an important life changing experience, especially if it brings them happiness. But more often than not, it's a way of fitting in. Fitting in as a teen, as a neighbor in a region dominated by evangelicals, or as a member of a sports team in high school.

by Verified1 on 09/13/2009 12:49:25 AM EST

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If its not wrong for taking kids to see a PG-13 movie, or feeding them fattening pizza,  or make their lives hell during hell week, its not wrong to take a kid to church. Its private none school hours, its not illegal, its not malicious or whatever. Sure some ultra prude could be upset that their kid saw some titty on a movie screen, or some vegan parent could be upset their kid ate a peperoni, or some sissy dad might be upset cause his kid is exhausted, but mad parents don't make those acts "wrong".

Sure the parents have a right to be upset if they thought the guy was influencing their kid in a way they don't agree with, but that's life. There are all kinds of people  influencing kids all kinds of ways. The parents need to keep parenting and the coach needs to be mindful and respectful of parents and their wishes when they entrust him to take care of them. But the simple act alone of taking them to a church on a voluntary basis is not something to stress over.

It would be wrong if he were pushing religion or favoring the catholic players over the non Catholics, or it would be wrong using school time or forcing players to worship his god. It would be wrong to go against  parent's wishes if they ask him not to do that again. He did none of these things. He has first amendment rights too and frankly there are alot worse things out there that people need to worry about than this coach.

by Smokin on 09/09/2009 02:14:07 PM EST

Players on the team will feel pressure to participate because of the nature of a team.  As a public school figure this guy has no business trying to do religious conversions on students he is currently involved with, none whatsoever.

I would give the guy one single strict warning and if he did it again kick his ass out for good.

by bfaul on 09/09/2009 02:21:06 PM EST

The coach definitely shouldn't get fired or anything, but it was certainly inappropriate to take those students to a church, voluntarily or otherwise, if for no other reason than it creates controversies just like this. Praying before a game is absolutely harmless. I don't even really consider that prayer, it's more like glorified hope. But if that's not allowed, then actually getting them baptized is, as Cenk would put it, beyond the bounds of reason. In retrospect, it was all harmless, no harm, no foul, but I have to agree with Jayar's point. Ask the parents, even if it's just as a courtesy. Then you have everyone on the same page and no one gets upset.

By the way, the best point of the debate was made by Cenk. If this guy had taken those players to a mosque and they came back Muslim, this would have been a much bigger story and the loudest voices would have been shouting, "No way, he can't do that!"

by BishopAP on 09/09/2009 02:58:38 PM EST

ok, yes it was voluntary and yes it was privately funded out of school hours but i still believe that the kids should have talked it through with their parents first, ive been to a few baptisms, i am not religious but it was relations who were being baptised so i think the parents should have been there plus it is not the place of the schools football coach to preach religion or attempt to convert others

by sneakycheese310 on 09/09/2009 04:29:36 PM EST

My issue is this: The coach cannot take his minor players anywhere without their parents’ permission, period. (okay, unless it’s an emergency) The rights of minors and church-state separation issues do not even have to come into play here.

Now I do not think he should be fired. But it needs to be made clear to him that he does not have the right to take minors anywhere behind their parents back. Not the mall, not a coffee shop, not their home, not their church. 

by goldenopal on 09/09/2009 09:25:09 PM EST

Well said, Opal. Plain and simple.

by Verified1 on 09/13/2009 12:29:17 AM EST

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My concern lies primarily with the teammates who didn't join in on the baptism fun. Obviously if this coach feels his religion is so important as to prostilitize to his team the importance of being baptised or "saved", he will think less of those who opted out, and this will most likely affect how they feel about him as well. It just seems idiotic to me. If they decided to meet up at a mall, or a church on a weekend, I don't think this would be an issue, but I would personally be offended if someone running an extracurricular activity wanted to essentially play favorites with those who subscribed to his particular religious dogmas.

by matthieuxdetoux on 09/10/2009 02:24:48 AM EST

For one thing, some players won't go because they are not religious or believe in another religion. It's like going to a night club with some friends and you're the only one not getting in because you're not old enough. You will feel left out afterward as well. It doesn't make sense for a person with authority, the coach in this case, to take the their workers/players/colleagues to places that will exclude some people (if any) from going.

 "That baptism was absolutely fun! You should have went. Oh wait you're Jewish, never mind."

 "Gee fucking thanks."

by xdarkxfirex on 09/10/2009 03:15:40 AM EST

What out of the blue he paid for a bus and said, "want to go get baptized?"  No way.  He's been talking about it and trying to convert them.  And when has he been doing this?  Obviously at practice and school.  The act of physically taking them on the bus is not the first step in this process, it's the last.

I know as a parent what I am expecting of my sons' coach is that they are teaching them; whatever sport they are playing, about team work, good sportsmanship, dedication, and responsibility.  That's an awful lot to cover in a practice without adding in their belief in God, they way that they believe in him.  So the outrage here is that some poor southern boys weren't being properly instructed in football!

Seriously though, it was unethical, highly inappropriate, and I have to believe illegal.  From what I read, he lied to the parents to get their permission, and said he was taking them to dinner to see a motivational speaker.


by Duncansmom14 on 09/10/2009 06:25:38 PM EST

I come from Oklahoma where this kind of activity is fairly normal. My only concern is that the same people that are supporting this coach are the same ones that failed to support our president when he told kids to stay in school. That doesn't make a damn bit of sense to me. I understand that their are good coaches that are a positive influence on children. Lets be honest though most could achieve achieve the goal of high school coach. Not everyone could be the President. Another great thing about Oklahoma everyone thinks i'm a commie......who knew. 

by ATYIA D on 09/11/2009 06:10:22 PM EST

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or this guys church

by gatekeeper50 on 09/12/2009 01:29:35 PM EST

My family was one of three Jewish families in a small Indiana town.  I was a high school basketball player and before our sectional tournament, our coach took us to a Sunday service at a Friends Church...Quaker.  I was accustomed to the odd man out thing so it was just a "here we go again" experience. 

Even though it wasn't required, it was expected that I go.  I would have preferred I not be in a position of choice.  In other words, going to a church as part of a school team is setting-up someone for a bad experience.  I resented my coach and on other occasions, my teammates.(fellowship of christian athletes)

Face it, evangelicals and most religions can be cult-like, so if you are fine with subjecting kids to cults, I guess there's no problem.  Being one of those kids, I can tell you, you basically sit there the whole time thinking, 'These people are nuts and my coach is a dick...I hope college is better.'

 

 

 

by redford on 09/12/2009 02:04:15 PM EST

Sorry to hear that happened to you, Redford. I feel I must attempt to reassure you that, just as there are members of the Jewish faith who have very different approaches toward religion, the same is true with Quakers. There are actually 4 different large affiliations of Quakers. It sounds as though you might have been taken to a rather evangelical group, especially since you called it a Friends "church." Most of us re not so proselytic and would not countenance such an action.

by Verified1 on 09/13/2009 12:23:57 AM EST

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I had already started a thread and poll before finding this. My poll is different, give it a look.....and for the record I am Anti-Coach taking kids to Church.

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by Hamsterdam on 09/12/2009 07:50:39 PM EST

This was an inappropriate use of this coach's position of power over minors. The school administration should suspend him or fire him immediately. I am Christian and cannot think of many worse ways to take the Lord's name in vain than to attempt to hold sway over other people's children (yes they are still children) by proselytizing and encouraging them join "the club" instead of allowing them to choose their own best path toward faith for themselves.

I don't blame the parents one tiny bit for being furious. I'd be looking for an attorney in a heartbeat - not to punish the coach, but to be sure the school put policies into place that guaranteed such an abuse of power never happened again in that district. And of course, it all just leads to confusion for the teens. Neither parents nor teens should have been put into this situation in the first place. The coach had no business taking them to his church or even discussing his religion with them. He was their coach - not their pastor. This was intimidation plain and simple - otherwise why were the parents not consulted?

How stupid or fanatical is this guy to think that parents shouldn't have the right to have a say in whether their child is carted off in a public school bus to join in a religious ritual in our secular country? This was not purely a matter of free choice for these team members. Of course they wanted to fit in and so followed the lead of an authority figure. I don't mind that they were baptized. I wouldn't even mind if they did it without their parents' knowledge at age 16. But that encouragement should have come from within - not from a public school teacher who makes decisions about whether or not they are able to succeed on a school sports team.

Cenk is absolutely right. If the coach had been Muslim, there would have been an army of Liberty University Law School crazies descending on this school like flies on a cow pie. It would be non-stop coverage by Fox News with Sean Hannity's eyeballs popping out and dangling in front of his face. Of course, they are going to go crazy anyway if the offended parents bring suit or demand his suspension, claiming oppression of Christians, and evidence of the rise of communism and threats to our Judeo-Christian heritage and blah blah.

Poor Jesus, what conceit is perpetuated in his name.

by Verified1 on 09/13/2009 12:11:58 AM EST

I may be working off of a lack of details here, but there's a good chance that the town this school was in had plenty of churches nearby. If 16/17 year old kids are old enough to make their own decisions, then let them walk into church on their own time and get baptized if they so choose.

Why the hell is their football coach rounding them up on a bus to go do it? It just sounds like he's purposefully trying to use his authority to get the kids baptized, with further evidence being that he did it secretly. A football coach or teacher has no right meddling in the personal lives of the students, be it a religious situation or otherwise. 

by ttony21 on 09/13/2009 10:15:03 PM EST

I just read the original story. All of the parents had been asked except one, and they were the only parents who have had a problem with this. Some of the parents went too. They were not taken to be baptized. They decided to get baptized after the service. It was after school and the bus was paid for by the coach, just for transportation convenience because so many said they wanted to go. Why did they keep saying "the parents didn't know"?

by momstock on 09/16/2009 03:29:59 AM EST

"the parents didn't know"

Per your own post:

"All of the parents had been asked except one, and they were the only parents who have had a problem with this."

Apparently all the parents didn't know. That's why they complained.

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by Robrob on 09/17/2009 07:56:10 PM EST

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At the High School level I wouldn't allow the coach to take the team to a church outside of community service type role, the only exception to this is Religious schools. The reason is High School is a state institution, and there is a separation of church and state, now at the collegiate level for private schools I would allow this and of course at the pros.

by Mustang424 on 09/22/2009 09:25:25 AM EST

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